Sex and the University ~ the blog

I'm sure most of you know what a typical webcam private session consists of. If you don't, it sort of goes like this:

- Client goes online to find the model of his liking
- A bit of sexy chat and questions to find out if the model into the same things he is into.
- Client clicks on "Go to private" button and starts paying, usually 2.25euros/minute on a French site or 6$/minute on an American site.
-Introduction, client will either tell the model what he wants to see or will tell her/him to just "do what pleases her/him"
- Model undresses, dances, moans, masturbates, whatever, until the client reaches orgasms or disconnects due to lack of funds.

But what about atypical webcam sessions?

The Dentist

The Dentist is a special client of mine and some of my coworkers. He demands that the model be dressed in a white blouse, no bra, that she wears latex gloves, surgical mask. He's asked me to tie up my hair and put on my glasses. He wants me to do all of this in free chat. I know he's a heavy spender so I do it. He wants us to assist him in dental procedures. There is usually no nudity and when he first became a client, the shows were not of a sexual nature.

I had heard of him before this first session so I was a bit excited when he first came into my room and made his requests. You get bored of the same old shows, doing the same stuff all the time, so "special" clients keep the job interesting. I put on my little outfit and he took me to a private session.

He told me to get my tools out, obviously I don't have dental tools, so I used my eyeliner pencil and makeup brushes. Dentist then asks me to get my patient ready. I use a huge pillow and propped it up against the wall as if it was sitting. The patient's name is Aurelie Simon, she's Dentist's ex gf that cheated on him. I torture her, give her root canals without anesthesia, I even slap her in the face.

Other times, I'm the patient. All he wants me to do is go up to the webcam, open my mouth very wide, use my two latex covered index fingers to keep it open, then answer questions. He examines my teeth. I'm loving this, I'm getting paid to sit around with my mouth open and let a cyber dude look at my teeth.

Does he get off on this? Who knows. Is he really a dentist? I have no idea. I do know sometimes he does get a bit explicit. He once asked me to lay back , unbutton my blouse (still not showing anything though), keep my white skinny pants on, pry open my mouth with my latexy fingers and move my hips as if he was penetrating me. That's as sexy as it got with Dentist and me.

The last show he's done was with two models at the same time. They webcam together. He made them pretend to be dentist and patient, the dentist was using toys on the patient with one hand, and "dental tools" with the other hand in her mouth. He wanted the dentist to be rough and asked her to slap the patient in the face. I'm assuming she was probably pretending to be Aurelie Simon, the despised ex.

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The job of a webcam girl seems rather simple. But really, it can get rather complex. We are actresses, mistresses, doms, subs, dancers, singers, therapists, girlfriends and lovers.

In the following weeks, I will be sharing with you some of my most interesting stories regarding the world of livecam and it's users.

“Friends, Romans, fellow porn-watchers, lend me your Internet browsing histories.”

Okay, all bad attempts at literary references aside, I’m serious: Readers of this blog, help a person out. Give me some recommendations for porn. Please.

Oh, wait. First, a disclaimer: I don’t want to delve too deep into my feelings on porn, on my stance on the never-ending “porn is pro- or anti-woman” debate. The truth is, I’m still in the process of figuring this out myself. I haven’t yet decided where on the spectrum I stand; all I know is that sometimes, for better or for worse, there’s nothin’ that hits the spot better than a good self-lovin’ session with some good porn. (Pun intended.)

The problem I have is … Where’s the good porn?

Of course, everyone’s taste in porn varies. I’ll tell you what I like, and you’ll see why I’m so goddamn frustrated about the lack of my “good” porn. Let’s start off with the good ol’ hetero porn. Usually, this stuff doesn’t cut it for me. This type of porn simply mirrors exactly what I see in our heteronormative society every day.

Sure, there are different faces, different body shapes, and different variations on power structures during sex (“Oooh! He’s waiting for her to come before he does anything to pleasure himself – how revolutionary!”), but essentially, I still always see the same two actors in everyday life as I do in my hetero porn. Thus, why would seeing a porno featuring a girl seducing a guy (or vice-versa) turn me on? I can find that same old routine in one of the many billboard ads or TV commercials that hawk low-rise jeans or some “exotically-named” perfume.

My gay roommate tried to help me, by sharing his prized collection of the “hottest gay porn out there”. Unfortunately, I just wasn’t turned on by all of the double-penetration and anal-stretching and circle-jerks that I saw. But I guess I’m kind of self-centered because sadly, when I watch man-on-man porn, my poor little ego ends up crying out plaintively, “But where do I come into the picture?” I guess part of me needs to live vicariously through porn, and I simply can't do that when the principal actors in a porno can survive and thrive on cock alone.

So that leaves me with just girl-on-girl porn. You’d think that I’d be happy with the selection; there’s a lot of that stuff floating around, after all. Unfortunately, I’m not pleased with my choices, and to be honest, I don’t think it’s because I’m “picky”.

I think that a lot of the “lesbian” porn that circulates is primarily aimed towards men. Why? To be frank, it’s in how the women look: They all look so damn … straight. Long hair, fingernails that look like they’d rip vaginas into shreds, half a pound of makeup on the face, spray-on tans … I could go on.

Yet, to go on a brief tangent, at the same time, I actually kind of dislike this sort of thinking of mine. I dislike knowing that I’m placing these women on a Lesbian-o-meter. Who am I to judge how “queer” a person should look before I decide that she’s “authentically queer”? Who am I to presume that lipstick and long hair makes a woman any less of a lesbian than a motorcycle and a crew-cut? Again, this is something that I still have to work out for myself. Until then, I’m a little sad to say, the truth is that this is how I feel.

Anyway, back to my point. For better or for worse, most mainstream lesbian porn out there strikes me as ersatz and tacky, pandering more to those in the Girls-Gone-Wild fanbase than to people like me: a horny queer girl looking for some, well, to put it bluntly, some hot dyke action.

So that’s it. Please help me out. Surely I’m not the only person who finds the sex scenes in The L Word (which can be found on primetime tele-fucking­-vision, of all places!) to be ten times hotter than the stuff from hotlesbiansluts.com. And surely I'm not the only person kind of frustrated by this!

- Yun